What they call a 'Stingy' man.

I have always listened to how ladies talk about men providing and giving them money. They call a man who doesn't give them money 'stingy'. I have also heard others say don't do things for a man before he marries you because he might get used to you doing everything. Wow such men ready do exist. But one thing you should know is when a man is stingy,he is just naturally stingy, nothing to do with you.

Well I don't hide this from anyone, I tell my truth and others get encouraged from it while other laugh at me and call me a fool. When my husband was just a boyfriend that I loved, I would buy him gifts and all, but that did not stop him from taking care of me and buying me gifts, I'll say this again when a man is stingy, honey he is just stingy naturally.

When its month end, in other homes if the husband gets K15,000 and the wife K10,000 then that home has K15,000 only. Husbands salary is for the house and wife's salary is hers. In other homes its visa versa and in other homes total income is K25,000. And when that K25,000 comes home, they make a budget, plans and all.

I have seen 'stingy' men who have a habit of giving or not telling their wives how much they earn fearing that she would I don't know what. Well, if my man gave a K200 after he got paid to buy relish without me knowing how much he actually earns, I would buy relish, vegetables and buy yoghurt for my son then keep the change. Go and and cook all the relish, eat everything and ask for more money for relish the following day. Why? Because I don't know how much he actually has,I'll assume he has more to give me everyday right..but if he came with his payslip and gave me the money and said babe this is all I have please make a budget for food till I get paid, honey I would gladly make that bughet from that K200.

Stop blaming yourself if his sting he is naturally stingy, don't stop buying him gifts, clothing him, his still your man after all. So stop telling the whole world, posting on social media about it. Respect him regardless.